From: Erin Pitre [erin@avaloncenter.org]
Sent: Monday, October 01, 2007 6:01 AM
To: Erin Pitre
Subject: October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month
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Domestic Violence Awareness Month

  October 1 - 7, 2007
Domestic ViolenceThe Power and Control Wheel
Domestic Violence is a pattern of abusive behavior used by one person that is intended to exert power and control over another person 
 
It's More Than Physical Abuse 
  • isolation...controlling who one sees, where one goes 
  • emotional abuse...playing mind games, calling one names
  • economic abuse... giving an allowance, keeping one from getting a job
  • sexual abuse...making one do things against one's will
  • threats...making threats to hurt one emotionally, threatening to commit suicide
  • intimidation...putting one in fear by using looks, actions, gestures, breaking things
  • using children...degrading one's parenting skills, using kids to relay messages
It's Effecting Our Families, Friends, & NeighborsWoman looking down
  • Every 5 days a Virginian is killed by an intimate partner
  • every 2.5 minutes someone in the U.S. is sexually assaulted; 72% of victims know the perpetrator
  • marital rape affects well over 75,000 women each year
  • every 4 hours, a Virginia child witnesses an act of domestic violence 
  • children who die as a result of abuse & neglect have a greater likelihood of living in violent homes
  • 1 in 3 teens know someone who has been physically hurt by a dating partner
  • persons with disabilities have a 4-10 time higher risk of being victimized
  • 1 in 12 women will be stalked in her lifetime; 76% of women who are killed by a partner are stalked beforehand
  • men who witness domestic violence as children are twice as likely to abuse as adults
  • between 1-2 million Americans age 65 or older have been injured, exploited, or mistreated by someone whom they depend on for care
  • 8% of the female population are subjected to physical violence during pregnancy
  • up to 50% of adolescent mothers experience violence before, during, or just after pregnancy
  • an employed woman with an unemployed partners is more than twice as likely to be psychologically abused
  • between 50% - 60% of women receiving welfare have been victims of abuse (compared to 22% in the general population)
 
It Happens Every Day. In One 24-hour Period...
  • 47,864 adults and children requested & received services 
  • 16,644 hotline calls were answered 
  • more than 22,277 victims found safety & respite in emergency shelters
  • an additional 25,587 victims received counseling, legal advocacy and support
  • sadly, 5,157 requests for services went unmet due to lack of resources 
 
Is it Happening to to Me or Someone I Care About?
 
It is Possible to Break the Cycle of Violence
Read the stories of Avalon clients who empowered themselves
Help is Available
Avalon's 24-hour Help (757) 258-5051
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Coming to Williamsburg
October 23, 2007
 
James T. ReeseJames T. Reese, "an internationally recognized author, lecturer, and consultant in the areas of stress management training, motivation, threat and risk assessments, and workplace violence" will be speaking at a special engagement hosted by the Historic Triangle Business Professional Women.  Tickets are $30/per person.
For more information or to purchase tickets, Contact the HTBPW
 
 
Avalon Administrative Office
P.O. Box 1079
Williamsburg, VA  23187
(757) 258-5022
Avalon Outreach Office
312 Waller Mill Road, Suite 300
Williamsburg, VA  23185
(757) 258-9362 
This email was sent to erin@avaloncenter.org, by erin@avaloncenter.org
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